lilac
بعد اذنك يا شام
لو تحبي افيدينا و انا اترجم لبقيه الاخوات علشان الفايده تعم
شام
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أشكركن غالياتي جزيل الشكر
استفدت كثيرا من الأفكار التي اورتموها
إن شاء الله أنا عازمة بإرادة المولى تعالى أن أسجلهم في نشاطات متنوعة صيفا شتاء مهما كان تالظروف فهو شيء لا بد منه ...
ليلك أختي اكتبي كل ما عندك فلا شك أن الكثيرات ستستفيد منها
ونحن نترجم كلامك ما في مشكلة
اعذروني لم أرد على كل واحدة بالتفصيل فوقتي كان ضيقا
لكن إن شاءا لله سأوافيكم بكل ما يستجد حول هذا الموضوع
رانيا : نعم
ونعم بالله
استفدت كثيرا من الأفكار التي اورتموها
إن شاء الله أنا عازمة بإرادة المولى تعالى أن أسجلهم في نشاطات متنوعة صيفا شتاء مهما كان تالظروف فهو شيء لا بد منه ...
ليلك أختي اكتبي كل ما عندك فلا شك أن الكثيرات ستستفيد منها
ونحن نترجم كلامك ما في مشكلة
اعذروني لم أرد على كل واحدة بالتفصيل فوقتي كان ضيقا
لكن إن شاءا لله سأوافيكم بكل ما يستجد حول هذا الموضوع
رانيا : نعم
ونعم بالله
lilac
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شام :
أشكركن غالياتي جزيل الشكر استفدت كثيرا من الأفكار التي اورتموها إن شاء الله أنا عازمة بإرادة المولى تعالى أن أسجلهم في نشاطات متنوعة صيفا شتاء مهما كان تالظروف فهو شيء لا بد منه ... ليلك أختي اكتبي كل ما عندك فلا شك أن الكثيرات ستستفيد منها ونحن نترجم كلامك ما في مشكلة اعذروني لم أرد على كل واحدة بالتفصيل فوقتي كان ضيقا لكن إن شاءا لله سأوافيكم بكل ما يستجد حول هذا الموضوع رانيا : نعم ونعم باللهأشكركن غالياتي جزيل الشكر استفدت كثيرا من الأفكار التي اورتموها إن شاء الله أنا عازمة...
السلام عليكم:تربيه الاولاد ليست بالامر السهل,and I have learnt alot from this country ,its good to learn from the others what its usfull and avoid what you make you fell out of tradions.
1.Try to be firm and tough and shows your child that you love him so much and becuse you love him you will punich him ,and becuse you love you reward him .
Don't forget to go back to your backgroung of your religion ,eg:الله بحبنا نسمع كلام ماماـالله شو بحبنا نعمل فيجيب هو ان نسمع كلام ماما.
Don't hestite to speak Arabic in front of others ,its for your own benefit to warn him in other language.
.As an example my daughter used to cry in front of her friend in school ,becuse she wants to go to her friend's house.So I used to do the step above and by the time she learnt.
By the way even if he is trying to shut his ears ,keep talking and ignore him ,in real things he is listening to you ,and he will learn by the time that his bad acting won't change any thing and it won't be for his own benefit.
What do you think shall I continue or do Number 2 later .!!!!:)
Even if he is trying
1.Try to be firm and tough and shows your child that you love him so much and becuse you love him you will punich him ,and becuse you love you reward him .
Don't forget to go back to your backgroung of your religion ,eg:الله بحبنا نسمع كلام ماماـالله شو بحبنا نعمل فيجيب هو ان نسمع كلام ماما.
Don't hestite to speak Arabic in front of others ,its for your own benefit to warn him in other language.
.As an example my daughter used to cry in front of her friend in school ,becuse she wants to go to her friend's house.So I used to do the step above and by the time she learnt.
By the way even if he is trying to shut his ears ,keep talking and ignore him ,in real things he is listening to you ,and he will learn by the time that his bad acting won't change any thing and it won't be for his own benefit.
What do you think shall I continue or do Number 2 later .!!!!:)
Even if he is trying
lilac
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lilac :
السلام عليكم:تربيه الاولاد ليست بالامر السهل,and I have learnt alot from this country ,its good to learn from the others what its usfull and avoid what you make you fell out of tradions. 1.Try to be firm and tough and shows your child that you love him so much and becuse you love him you will punich him ,and becuse you love you reward him . Don't forget to go back to your backgroung of your religion ,eg:الله بحبنا نسمع كلام ماماـالله شو بحبنا نعمل فيجيب هو ان نسمع كلام ماما. Don't hestite to speak Arabic in front of others ,its for your own benefit to warn him in other language. .As an example my daughter used to cry in front of her friend in school ,becuse she wants to go to her friend's house.So I used to do the step above and by the time she learnt. By the way even if he is trying to shut his ears ,keep talking and ignore him ,in real things he is listening to you ,and he will learn by the time that his bad acting won't change any thing and it won't be for his own benefit. What do you think shall I continue or do Number 2 later .!!!!:) Even if he is tryingالسلام عليكم:تربيه الاولاد ليست بالامر السهل,and I have learnt alot from this country ,its good...
2.Be firm. you should be firm my lady ,not in voice but even in you face and eyes.
and if you say no it means NO. و مهماحصل لا تتراجعي عن كلمتك اواي خطوةقمت بها و الا اصبحتى العوبه بيد ابنك ـ.
و اذاكنت غاضبه فاريه انك منزعجه جدا اما ان يعتذر حالا او ان يذهب الى غرفته ليفكر و يعيد النظر بما فعل ـ وليس هناك فئه عمريه محدده تستطيع البدءبهذا الاسلوب من عمر 3سنوات.
And if you are happy about things he has done ,show him that you are happy and give him something simple as reward like a sweet or chocolate, and make him happy and proud for what he had done.
وللحديث بقيه
and if you say no it means NO. و مهماحصل لا تتراجعي عن كلمتك اواي خطوةقمت بها و الا اصبحتى العوبه بيد ابنك ـ.
و اذاكنت غاضبه فاريه انك منزعجه جدا اما ان يعتذر حالا او ان يذهب الى غرفته ليفكر و يعيد النظر بما فعل ـ وليس هناك فئه عمريه محدده تستطيع البدءبهذا الاسلوب من عمر 3سنوات.
And if you are happy about things he has done ,show him that you are happy and give him something simple as reward like a sweet or chocolate, and make him happy and proud for what he had done.
وللحديث بقيه
الصفحة الأخيرة
Mrs Sham ,I have lots of ideas and I am the mother of 3 kids 10/7/7 years old.
But I don't know if you accept me to write in English ,otherwise wait till I have more time to express about all the ideas in my mind and which I have a rules in my house.....Tell me how to write and I'm willing to help.
Lilac from the city of (dik al-gen).