السلام عليكم..
معكم الاخت ام اجوان..
انا جديده معكم وحامل في الغربه..
آآآآآآآآهـ..
أنــــا
( أمـــريــكــا )
اعرفكم ع نفسي:
عندي بنتين وحامل..
وتعباانه..
ع اني توني في الاشهر الاولى مبكرررره..
بس وش نسوووي..
:)
المهم بتقبلووني ولا لا؟؟<<بشوويش عليهم..
السلام عليكم..
معكم الاخت ام اجوان..
انا جديده معكم وحامل في الغربه..
آآآآآآآآهـ..
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1- one is to ask your mom to stay home with your dad and brother while you taking care of yourself ,which is i prefer , because you need to experience the life without you mom with a husband and 2 kids,annnnddddd mommy won't be there for you after she leaves back home
in addition u will be nervous also ur husband will be used on luxury ,not the real life, it is a really god time and bad time for both of u, good time for both of u to try to help each other, bad because u might not get any sleep,and so on , but any way having ur mom for 1 month or so won't help after words , you will be stuck with 2 kids and husband
2- two is to be really really clear while you talk to you mom,she will understand, tell her mama i have no space ,for all these people to stay home , i don't have but for example 1 bed or 2 beds , i don't know how can it work out while dad and brothers are here, i don't want them to sleep on the ground also i'm already nervous from the limited space i have and don't know where to put baby stuff or walk in the house
another option to pray against the visas to stop allllllllll together :))
be strong ya lady we will figure something out and how can we handle the new one with the toddlers we already have
relax
also talk to ur husband tell him i'm stressed out , be clear but be nice , it is hard situation with the husband not the mom , so try to work it out with ur mom, she is a lady like u and i'm sure she was in ur place one day
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