السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

اشكر لك اختي حرصك وغيرتك على الدين
وهذه قصيدة باللغة الانجليزيه وصلتني عن طريق الايميل تتكلم عن الحجاب ونظرة الاخرين للحجاب اتمنى تكون مفيدة لك في نقاشك معهم وخصوصا من خلال معرفتي بالاجانب انهم يحبون الشعر فهذه طريقه جيده لايصال المعلومات التي تريدين ايصالها لهم بأقصر وأسهل الطرق :26: :26:




What do you see when you look at me,

Do you see someone limited, or someone free,

All some people can do is just look and stare,

Simply because they cant see my hair,

Others think I am controlled and uneducated,

They are so thankful that they are not me,

Because they would like to remain FREE,

Well free isn't exactly the word I would've used,

Describing women who are cheated on and abused,

They think that I do not have opinions or voice,

They think that being hooded isn't my choice,

They think that the hood makes me look caged,

That my husband or dad is totally outraged,

All they can do is look at me in fear,

And in my eye there is a tear,

Not because I have been stared at or made fun of,

But because people are ignoring the One up above,

On the Day of Judgment they will be the fools,

Because they were too ashamed to play by their own rules,

Maybe the guys won't think I am a cutie,

But at least I am filled with more inner beauty,

See I have declined from being a guy's toy,

Because I won't let my self be controlled by a boy,

Real men are able to appreciate my mind,

And aren't busy looking at my behind,

Hooded girls are the ones really helping the Muslim cause,

The role that we play definitely deserves applause,

I will be recognized because I am smart and bright,

And because some people are inspired by my sight,

The smart ones are attracted by my tranquility,

In the back of their mind they wish they were me,

We have the strength to do what we think is right,

Even if it means putting up a life long fight,

You see we are not controlled by a mini skirt and tight shirt,

We are given only respect, and never treated like dirt,

So you see, we are the ones that are free and liberated,

We are not the ones that are sexually terrorized and violated,

We are the ones that are free and pure,

We're free of standards's that have no cure,

So when people ask you how you feel about the hood,

Just sum it up by saying 'baby it's all good'

طبعا الفواصل قبل كل بيت او سطر محلها في اخر السطر حاولت بكل طريقه انقلها بشكل مضبوط ولكن عجززت :06:

السلام عليكم مره اخرى :26:

وهذا ايميل ثاني وهو عباره عن اسئلة والاجوبة عليها

HIJAB FOR THE PROTECTION OF WOMEN
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>Question:
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>Why does Islam degrade women by keeping them behind the veil?
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>Answer:
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>The status of women in Islam is often the target of attacks in the secular media.
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>The ‘hijab’ or the Islamic dress is cited by many as an example of the
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>‘subjugation’ of women under Islamic law. Before we analyze the reasoning
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>behind the religiously mandated ‘hijab’, let us first study the status of women in
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>societies before the advent of Islam
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>1. In the past women were degraded and used as objects of lust
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>The following examples from history amply illustrate the fact that the status of
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>women in earlier civilizations was very low to the extent that they were denied
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>basic human dignity:
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>a. Babylonian Civilization: The women were degraded and were denied all rights under the Babylonian law. If a man murdered a woman, instead of him being punished, his wife
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>was put to death.
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>b. Greek Civilization: Greek Civilization is considered the most glorious of all ancient civilizations. Under this very ‘glorious’ system, women were deprived of all rights and
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>were looked down upon. In Greek mythology, an ‘imaginary woman’ called ‘Pandora’ is the root cause of misfortune of human beings. The Greeks considered women to be subhuman and inferior to men. Though chastity of women was precious, and women were held in high esteem, the Greeks were later overwhelmed by ego and sexual perversions. Prostitution became a regular practice amongst all classes of Greek society.
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>c. Roman Civilization: When Roman Civilization was at the zenith of its ‘glory’, a man even had the right to take the life of his wife. Prostitution and nudity were common amongst the Romans.
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>d. Egyptian Civilization: The Egyptian considered women evil and as a sign of a devil.
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>e. Pre-Islamic Arabia: Before Islam spread in Arabia, the Arabs looked down upon women and very often when a female child was born, she was buried alive.
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>2. Islam uplifted women and gave them equality and expects them
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>to maintain their status.
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>Islam uplifted the status of women and granted them their just rights 1400 years
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>ago. Islam expects women to maintain their status.
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>Hijab for men
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>People usually only discuss ‘hijab’ in the context of women. However, in the
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>Glorious Qur’an, Allah (swt) first mentions ‘hijab’ for men before ‘hijab’ for the
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>women. The Qur’an mentions in Surah Noor:
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>“Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard
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>their modesty: that will make for greater purity for them: and Allah is
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>well acquainted with all that they do.”
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>The moment a man looks at a woman and if any brazen or unashamed thought
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>comes to his mind, he should lower his gaze.
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>Hijab for women.
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>The next verse of Surah Noor, says:
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>“ And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and
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>guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and
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>ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof; that they
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>should draw veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty
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>except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands’ fathers, their
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>sons...”
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>3. Six criteria for Hijab.
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>According to Qur’an and Sunnah there are basically six criteria for observing
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>hijab:
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>1. Extent:
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>The first criterion is the extent of the body that should be covered. This is
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>different for men and women. The extent of covering obligatory on the male
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>is to cover the body at least from the navel to the knees. For women, the
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>extent of covering obligatory is to cover the complete body except the face
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>and the hands up to the wrist. If they wish to, they can cover even these
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>parts of the body. Some scholars of Islam insist that the face and the hands
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>are part of the obligatory extent of ‘hijab’.
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>All the remaining five criteria are the same for men and women.
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>2. The clothes worn should be loose and should not reveal the figure.
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>3. The clothes worn should not be transparent such that one can see through
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>them.
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>4. The clothes worn should not be so glamorous as to attract the opposite sex.
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>5. The clothes worn should not resemble that of the opposite sex.
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>6. The clothes worn should not resemble that of the unbelievers i.e. they
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>should not wear clothes that are specifically identities or symbols of the
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>unbelievers’ religions.
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>4. Hijab includes conduct and behavior among other things
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>Complete ‘hijab’, besides the six criteria of clothing, also includes the moral
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>conduct, behavior, attitude and intention of the individual. A person only
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>fulfilling the criteria of ‘hijab’ of the clothes is observing ‘hijab’ in a limited sense.
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>‘Hijab’ of the clothes should be accompanied by ‘hijab’ of the eyes, ‘hijab’ of the
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>heart, ‘hijab’ of thought and ‘hijab’ of intention. It also includes the way a person
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>walks, the way a person talks, the way he behaves, etc.
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>5. Hijab prevents molestation
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>The reason why Hijab is prescribed for women is mentioned in the Qur’an in the
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>following verses of Surah Al-Ahzab:
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>“O Prophet! Tell thy wives and daughters, and the believing women
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>that they should cast their outer garments over their persons (when
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>abroad); that is most convenient, that they should be known (as such)
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>and not molested. And Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.”
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>The Qur’an says that Hijab has been prescribed for the women so that they are
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>recognized as modest women and this will also prevent them from being
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>molested.
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>6. Example of twin sisters
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>Suppose two sisters who are twins, and who are equally beautiful, walk down
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>the street. One of them is attired in the Islamic hijab i.e. the complete body is
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>covered, except for the face and the hands up to the wrists. The other sister is
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>wearing western clothes, a mini skirt or shorts. Just around the corner there is
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>a hooligan or ruffian who is waiting for a catch, to tease a girl. Whom will he
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>tease? The girl wearing the Islamic Hijab or the girl wearing the skirt or the mini?
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>Naturally he will tease the girl wearing the skirt or the mini. Such dresses are an
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>indirect invitation to the opposite sex for teasing and molestation. The Qur’an
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>rightly says that hijab prevents women from being molested.
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>7. Capital punishment for the rapists
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>Under the Islamic shari’ah, a man convicted of having raped a woman, is given
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>capital punishment. Many are astonished at this ‘harsh’ sentence. Some even
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>say that Islam is a ruthless, barbaric religion! I have asked a simple question to
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>hundreds of non-Muslim men. Suppose, God forbid, someone rapes your wife,
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>your mother or your sister. You are made the judge and the rapist is brought in
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>front of you. What punishment would you give him? All of them said they would
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>put him to death. Some went to the extent of saying they would torture him to
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>death. To them I ask, if someone rapes your wife or your mother you want to put
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>him to death. But if the same crime is committed on somebody else’s wife or
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>daughter you say capital punishment is barbaric. Why should there be double
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>standards?
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>8. Western society falsely claims to have uplifted women
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>Western talk of women’s liberalization is nothing but a disguised form of
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>exploitation of her body, degradation of her soul, and deprivation of her honor.
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>Western society claims to have ‘uplifted’ women. On the contrary it has actually
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>degraded them to the status of concubines, mistresses and society butterflies
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>who are mere tools in the hands of pleasure seekers and sex marketers,
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>hidden behind the colorful screen of ‘art’ and ‘culture’.
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>9. USA has one of the highest rates of rape
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>United States of America is supposed to be one of the most advanced countries
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>of the world. It also has one of the highest rates of rape in any country in the
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>world. According to a FBI report, in the year 1990, every day on an average
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>1756 cases of rape were committed in U.S.A alone. Later another report said
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>that on an average everyday 1900 cases of rapes are committed in USA. The
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>year was not mentioned. May be it was 1992 or 1993. May be the Americans
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>got ‘bolder’ in the following years.
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>Consider a scenario where the Islamic hijab is followed in America. Whenever
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>a man looks at a woman and any brazen or unashamed thought comes to his
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>mind, he lowers his gaze. Every woman wears the Islamic hijab, that is the
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>complete body is covered except the face and the hands up to the wrist. After
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>this if any man commits rape he is given capital punishment. I ask you, in such
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>a scenario, will the rate of rape in America increase, will it remain the same, or
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>will it decrease?
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>10. Implementation of Islamic Shari’ah will reduce the rate of rapes
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>Naturally as soon as Islamic Shari’ah is implemented positive results will be
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>inevitable. If Islamic Shari’ah is implemented in any part of the world, whether it
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>is America or Europe, society will breathe easier. Hijab does not degrade a
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>woman but uplifts a woman and protects her modesty and chastity.

عزيزتي عبير نجد اشكرك جزيلا على الرد وعلى المساعده
انا اليوم ناقشت الموضوع
والمفرح ان المعلمه اخذت الاوراق التي استخرجتها من السايت الذي قدمته لي الاخت انا مين
وقررت ان تطبعها وتوزعها على البنات وصراحه هي معلمه محايده تحترم المراة المسلمه لانها متمسكه بعقيدتها ودينها
ومن ضمن تعليقاتها انها قالت ان بعض الحكومات تمنع الحجاب اذا كان من ناحيه دينيه
اما لو كان موضه او زينه فانها لا تعترض
اشكر كل من ساعدني والموضوع ما يزال معروض للنقاش وما زلنا نتناقش فيه
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السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
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إن شاء الله تسلم ويكون لكم بإذن الله الأجر العظيم
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