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Punish of Children
Most of children do many mistake especial who between four to eight . That mistake makes their parent to punish them . Some parents believe that strike is the best ways to punish because it makes the parent to control , fear and armor their children . On other hand , anther parents see that strike has negative effect , does not propriety of children and there are other best alternate of strike .

Striking has negative effect of children .first of all , there effect of their physiology . The strike make children aggressive , insensitive .For example , my nephew Ahmad is always punish by strike . When a cane fall dawn , he gives it to his father to complete their strike . Second , the striking has effect of there body . When the parents strike the children , their appear some of bruise and contusion on children's bodies . Also , the strike has effect of body by long time . Last year , my uncle sew a boy did not speak well , and he was dither although that boy was healthy and good speaker when he was young . Finally , the striking has social effect . It makes the children like to be alone , and he makes them unconfident because he feels other children better than him . Also , the strike makes the children want to retaliate by strike other children ,or by put themselves in a problem like going away or filed in the school to tier their parent .

The striking does not suitable punish of children in this stage . First of all , The nature of children like simile of other without thinking . Yesterday , my brother Saud who was six years took a sagrate to smoke like my father . Also , their nature likes to adventure and explore a new and dangerous thing . Last week , when my mother wanted to fire a stove by flambeau , my youngest sister Hana took the flambeau to burn a paper which approach to fire the kitchen . The best clear evidence of that striking does not good for children that Prophet Mohammad peace be upon him does not order to punish the children by strike except if arrive to ten years , and they do not pray which is the most important thing .

There are other best alternate of punish the children than striking . First of all , the parents can use arrest and ignore for taking . Also , they can punish them by try to control their active or prison them in particular place and in short time . Also , the parent can order the children to fix their mistake by themselves . For example ,when the children bedraggle their room and throw their toys , they must clean the room and arrange the toys . The best way is the deprivation .The parent can refuse to give them what they want especial if they love . For example , the parents can do not make them go a picnic with their friends , show their favorite adventure in T.V. , eat their likely sweet ,or play with their brothers football or computer .

The parent punish their children not to damage them but to amend their behavior .
The parent must choose the good punish for children age and for mistake . شاكري العميق ........