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Dear sister sunsun_micro .
Thank you so much for your advice, it really meant a lot to me.

all shokor lelah,sister

I just feel depressed that my child and me may not get the care that we couldhave with insurance

ok let's talk about this point to relief u from ur bad thoughts.this is ur first baby, do u know what will be the prenatal care during ur pregnancy?? sure u don't,because it is ur first,sister THEY DON"T DO ANYTHING.look, they check u when u r 8-10 weeks,this is ur first appointment with them
then they give u vitamins,usually only prenatal vitamin as i told u+they ask u to try to eat healthy

after that they start to check at week 10 the baby's heart's beats ,by a small device, onlyy
so u go every month "4 weeks" to check the baby's heart's beats till the end of the pregnancy

on week 18- 20 week-- they make u ultrasound, to determine the size of the baby,how long is his/her bones,and so on, and also the sex of the baby

then u check with them as i told u every month "only the heart's beats of the baby "

on week 26 they start to ask u to come every 2 weeks +,when they start to check the size of ur uterus and see if it is opened or not+check baby's hearts beats


till i think week 36 they ask u to go to them every 1 week ,to also check ur uterus


also they make a blood test "from week 24-28 or 29" this test is glucose tolerance test" " in that test u go to them and they give u a cup of orange juice"test like it has been outside in the sun for 1 week ,ya33 :)) ok then they ask u to drink it in 5 min ,and don't eat or drink any thing for 1 hour,then they withdraw blood from u

in that test they try to determine if u developed some sort of blood sugar during ur pregnancy
and more likely if u r healthy and eat right,u don't have any problem inshaa allah, with that blood also that they withdraw ,they make complete blood picture,where they look if u have low iron,ur blood cells, ya3nee ayee kalaam men al akheer


ok so it is not that much that they do, all the prenatal care u receive after delivery and they deal with all people the same, my husband told me that u need to check the state 's laws, u might get free care ,,or the governmental programs, and listen sister it is not shameful to do that ,believe me there are people who have alot of money and don't like to have insurance and like to go to the governmental care,so u r in urgent point ,and u really need it ,so it is not haram to try something like that
also if the delivery cost is so expensive,if u just even pay 1 dollar to the hospital ,then u should be ok,they won't go after u at all,as long as u pay anything even if it was a dollar


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Another thing is that the delivery costs a lot of money and I don't thinkthat we can afforded it

sweet heart no body can afford it ,not only u,the american themselves can't afford it ,

I am trying my best to not over think about that; however, it overwhelmed mesometimes

u don't need to get overwhelmed,u will be ok inshaa allah,as long as u r healthy it is only the change in hormones that upsets u too ,but, start to ask in ur hospital and talk with ur doctor if u can over the telephone,it might take sometimes but not long .
Your words and Duaa are so nice and healing, they made me feel better.
may god bless u sister ,i really need ur duaaa too

I will buy the vitamins you told me about and try to follow your advices.


also u can buy it after u ask the pharmacist about the best type,or another nice way, is to ask ur pharmacy fro free prenatal, if u have any meijer store,they give it for u for FREE for FREE

some pharmacies give the prenatal for FREE
come on now ,it will be ok inshaa allah not shameful, to get prenatal vitamin for free, i see people with big houses and big expensive cars,and still get things for free,feel good sister

go and register in babycenter.com
u should receive news letters on ur email and u will see what u should do, "not much actually" during pregnancy at home not the hospital

khalekee rageel ya sheikhaa ,rabeek ra7 yeyaser al amoor ,don't worry,inshaa allah it will be solved,i'll try to check ur state laws on line,and u too,but i'm sick from more than 2 weeks,and have some problems ,so please give me some times and i'll do my best to help u, out even by some advices or duaa

pray for me sister ,may god bless u and bless ur baby, just get some sleep and drink good amount of liquids ,milk,and eat food reach with vitamins,u can eat beans,rice,pasta,veggies, fruits,better even than chicken and meat to eat beans any type,because of folic acids and proteins

take it easy sister ;) the doctors or midwife don't do anything as much as u think and in the state's or governmental program for pregant women they actually take care of the preganat more than the one they pay insurance for her


Thank you again and may Allah reward you